Short answer: In 2027, a mediated divorce in the Netherlands may cost €820, €1,080 or €1,460 per person through Family Mediation Delft, depending on whether the case is simple, involves financial arrangements or includes children. Separate court and document costs may apply.

Last reviewed: 14 November 2026. The package prices in this guide were checked against the live Family Mediation Delft pricing information on that date. Prices and external court charges can change, so check the live pricing information before starting.

This guide is written for international couples and families who want a clear explanation of divorce costs in the Netherlands. It explains what mediation packages cover, which costs are separate and what can make a divorce more expensive.

How much does a divorce cost in the Netherlands in 2027?

For couples who can work together through mediation, the listed Family Mediation Delft package prices are:

  • Simple package: €820 per person
    For partners without children, no alimony and no division of assets.
  • Basic package: €1,080 per person
    For partners without children who need support with assets, debts, alimony or pension arrangements.
  • Kids package: €1,460 per person
    For partners with children, including support with a parenting plan and child-support calculations.

These are mediation package prices, not a universal Dutch divorce fee. The final cost depends on the work required and any expenses outside the package.

What is included in the mediation packages?

Depending on the package, the service can include:

  • Online mediation sessions
  • Preparation of the divorce agreement or divorce covenant
  • Division of assets and debts where relevant
  • Alimony calculations where relevant
  • Guidance on pension arrangements
  • A parenting plan and child-support calculations for parents
  • Legal checks by the collaborating advocate
  • Submission of the agreed documents to the court
  • Registration of the divorce in the civil registries

For international families, online meetings can make it easier for both partners to participate when they live in different cities or countries. Cross-border documents and legal questions may require additional time or specialist advice.

Which divorce costs are separate?

The package prices do not cover every external expense. The live pricing information states that postage, BRP extracts and the court fee known as griffierecht are separate. Rechtspraak also explains that a divorce can involve court fees, an advocate and, where applicable, a mediator. See the official Rechtspraak information about divorce costs.

Other possible expenses include translation, legalisation or apostille work, a notary for a property transfer, specialist tax or financial advice, extra mediation sessions and independent legal advice. Ask about these items before agreeing to a package.

Why can one divorce cost more than another?

The cost may increase when:

  • There are complicated assets, debts or business interests.
  • A home or other property must be valued, transferred or sold.
  • The partners disagree about alimony, pensions or finances.
  • Children live in different countries or need detailed arrangements.
  • Documents must be translated, legalised or obtained abroad.
  • There are difficult nationality, residence or jurisdiction questions.
  • More mediation sessions are needed than the package includes.
  • A notary, tax adviser, financial adviser or separate lawyer is needed.

Is mediation cheaper than a contested divorce?

Mediation can be less expensive than a contested divorce because both partners work with one mediator and try to reach agreements together. A contested process may involve separate lawyers, more correspondence and additional court steps.

There is no guaranteed saving. Mediation is a different process, not simply a cheaper court case. It works best when both partners can exchange information and participate voluntarily. A mediator cannot decide the case for you. The Juridisch Loket explains that mediation requires both parties to take part and work toward an agreement. See its mediation information.

What does the court process add?

An advocate is required to submit a divorce request to the Dutch court. Rechtspraak explains the main steps and documents in its official divorce procedure information. If you have minor children, an effective parenting plan is required. The official guidance is available in the Rechtspraak section on divorce with children.

What does divorce cost for international families?

International families may need to consider Dutch jurisdiction, residence, nationality, children living abroad, pensions, property in another country and recognition of a Dutch divorce elsewhere. These questions do not automatically make mediation unsuitable, but they can affect the documents, time and professional advice required.

Family Mediation Delft can explain the mediation process and help prepare the agreements. Individual legal, tax, immigration or foreign-law questions may require advice from a suitably qualified professional. The Juridisch Loket also provides a general guide to arranging a divorce.

Frequently asked questions

What is the average cost of divorce in the Netherlands?

There is no single average price. For mediated divorces, the listed Family Mediation Delft packages for 2027 are €820, €1,080 or €1,460 per person, depending on the situation. Separate court, document and specialist costs may apply.

Who pays for divorce mediation?

Many couples divide the costs equally, but partners can agree on another arrangement. Discuss payment before the process starts, especially where incomes or access to money differ.

Does the package price include court costs?

The package information includes preparation and submission work described for the relevant package, but external charges such as postage, BRP extracts and griffierecht are separate. Check the live pricing information for the current exclusions.

Is mediation suitable if we have children?

Mediation can help parents create a practical parenting plan and agree arrangements for their children. The Kids package includes support with a parenting plan and child-support calculations. The children’s needs and safety should remain central throughout the process.

How can I find out the exact cost of my divorce?

Compare your situation with the package descriptions and discuss any additional issues before starting. An introductory conversation can help clarify which package is likely to fit and whether separate professional advice may be needed.

Conclusion

For 2027, the listed Family Mediation Delft packages are €820 per person for a simple divorce, €1,080 per person for a basic divorce and €1,460 per person for a divorce involving children. These prices give couples a clearer starting point, while court, document and specialist costs may remain separate.

If you are unsure which package fits your situation, you can arrange an introductory conversation with Family Mediation Delft to discuss your circumstances and the next step without pressure.

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This article provides general information, not individual legal advice. Cross-border divorce questions can depend on the facts of your case.